Friday, May 29

FOOD FOR THOUGHT.

APRIL AND MYSELF WERE HAVING A HEALTHY DICUSSION OVER WINE AND SMIRNOFF PER OUR NORMAL ROUTINE AND THE TOPIC OF FRIENDSHIP CAME UP. WE ALWAYS HAVING SOME TYPE OF DEEP CONVERSION WHEN WE GATHER AND WE BEEN KNOWING EACH OTHER FOR DAMN NEAR 10 YEARS AND SHE KNOW I'M ALWAYS GONE BE DRY AND NON-EMOTIONAL. LOL.

NOW, WE ALL KNOW THAT PEOPLE OUT GROW ONE ANOTHER THAT IS A HEALTHY PROCESS AND PART OF LIFE, HOWEVER, LETS NOT FORGET THOSE WHO HELPED ELEVATE YOU TO WHERE YOU ARE. AS NIJA SAID, NEVER BURN THE BRIDGE THAT CARRIED YOU ACROSS. MY MINDFRAME CANNOT WRAP AROUND THE LACK OF THOROUGH PEOPLE IN RECENT YEARS. I MEAN WHERE ALL THESE PHONY PEOPLE COME FROM?!?! EVERYBODY THESE DAYS WANNA BE BFFS WITH THE PEOPLE THEY WAS JUST GETTING INTO IT WITH MONTHS AGO, LAST YEAR, ALL THAT. I MEAN HOW YOU BFFS WITH SOMEBODY THAT WAS JUST CAUSING YOU SO MUCH PAIN OR PUTTING YO NAME IN HELLA BULLSHIT. YOU CAN'T EXPRESS YA FRUSTRATION ABOUT THEM AND HOW THEY DOING YOU SO WRONG, OR PUTTING YOU IN SUCH FUCKED UP SITUTATIONS, BUT YOU GOING A MILE OUTTA YA WAY WHEN YOU KNOW THATS NOT THE RIGHT PLAN OF ATTACK.


WHERE THEY DO THAT AT?!?! IS THERE A SHORTAGE OF FRIENDS LIKE THERE IS A SHORTAGE OF MEN?!(IT'S TRUE, IT IS A SOCIOLOGICAL FACT THAT WOMEN OUTNUMBER MEN 100 TO 70, AND WHEN YOU FACTOR IN THE MARRIAGEABLE MEN, IT GETS EVEN LOWER).


I MEAN ITS FINE TO SQUASH THE BEEF AND ALL THAT, PEOPLE DO GROW UP(HOPEFULLY, EVEN IF ITS AT A DIFFERENT PACE THAN OTHERS). BUT, YOU CANNOT BE BFFS WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU KNOW WAS JUST HARBORING SOME TYPE OF ANIMOSITY IN THEIR HEART AND MIND FOR YOU. IT'S JUST NOT A SAFE BET. WHERE CAN THE TRUST BUILD FROM AND WHERE CAN THE BOND START FROM?!

IS IT JUST ME OR WHAT?!

PEOPLE DO COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON, A SEASON, AND A LIFETIME ITS UP TO US TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE THREE.

I MEAN, IF A PERSON BURN YOU ONCE, ITS MORE THAN LIKELY THAT THE PATTERN WILL CONTINUE. IF YA GUT TELLING YOU SHIT AIN'T RIGHT, IT'S USUALLY THE VOICE OF GOD LETTING YOU KNOW THAT A REVELATION IS UPON US AND THAT'S NOT WHERE YOU NEED TO BE.

DON'T IGNORE IT BECAUSE IT IS NEVER A MISTAKE!!!!!!!!!

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